Wedding planning can be as exciting as it is challenging, and it's normal for many questions to arise during the process, especially regarding the so-called 'protocol,' as these aspects can be crucial and affect your big day. Have you ever wondered what protocol is and what it entails? Don't worry, today I'll clear up your doubts!
WHAT IS PROTOCOL?
In a general context, protocol refers to a set of established rules and norms that govern behavior, organization, and procedures in various social, ceremonial, or institutional situations. It can come in different types depending on its application: social, institutional, corporate, but we are focusing on social protocol.
This is defined as the set of norms, customs, usages, and rules capable of regulating behavior and human relationships, improving the quality and effectiveness of our personal actions and relationships with others. Within social protocol, we find bridal protocol, applicable to all weddings, whether religious or not.
Protocol refers to established norms to govern our actions in various situations. Within it, we find social protocol, applicable to weddings, baptisms, communions, and other minor social events such as birthdays or celebrations.
In the realm of weddings, bridal protocol refers to the guidelines and formalities that dictate the behavior, planning, and execution of a wedding ceremony. It encompasses a variety of aspects, such as the wording of invitations, the organization of the ceremony, the arrangement of participants, dress codes, the development of the reception, and other details related to the wedding event. These rules may vary depending on cultural traditions, wedding style, and the preferences of the couple, but overall, they aim to create a harmonious and orderly atmosphere during the celebration.
Protocol in a wedding is like a melody that guides every detail of your celebration to ensure it goes as planned. But don't worry, protocol doesn't have to be a source of stress. In fact, it's a valuable tool that will help you create an unforgettable wedding.
As a professional Wedding Planner trained by the University of Murcia, I understand the importance of incorporating protocol in a meaningful way and adapting it to your personal preferences. I never use it as a limitation, but rather as a framework to walk upon to bring your love story to life.
WHAT ASPECTS OF PROTOCOL SHOULD I INCLUDE IN MY WEDDING?
The inclusion of specific aspects of protocol in your wedding will depend on your personal preferences, the style of the wedding, and cultural traditions. Here are some common aspects of protocol that you'll need to consider:
Invitations:
Drafting and designing the invitations.
Including clear information about the date, time, and location.
Attire:
Dress code for the couple, family members, and guests.
Consideration of specific dress codes, if desired.
Ceremony:
Order and arrangement of the ceremony.
Protocol for the entrance and exit of the couple and the wedding party.
Musical accompaniment and performance timings.
Wedding Vows:
Decision on writing and delivering wedding vows.
Signing of the Marriage Certificate:
Protocol for signing the marriage certificate.
Reception:
Protocol for entering the reception.
Seating arrangements and seat assignments.
Toasts and Speeches:
Order and structure of toasts and speeches.
First Dance:
Selection of the song for the first dance.
Protocol for opening the dance floor.
Gifts and Thank You's:
Protocol for receiving gifts and expressing gratitude.
Departure of the Newlyweds:
Protocol for the departure of the newlyweds at the end of the celebration.
It's important to personalize the protocol according to your tastes and preferences, adapting it to the uniqueness of your wedding. Flexibility is key to ensuring that the celebration reflects the essence of your story.
In the wedding protocol, you should include all those aspects that affect the structure of your event, such as the entrances to the ceremony or the first dance.
Another reliable source of information is books on protocol. Some examples include the wedding etiquette book written by the trusted Emily Post's, articles from protocolo.org, or some articles from specialized blogs on the subject.
WHAT IF I NEED HELP ESTABLISHING THE PROTOCOL FOR MY WEDDING?
Now that we've tackled "What is protocol and how does it affect my wedding?" at Nym the Wedding, as experts in wedding organization and planning in Murcia, we're here to accompany you every step of this exciting journey. Not only will we immerse ourselves in the most beautiful details of the celebration, but we'll also ensure that the protocol harmonizes with your needs.
Within our range of services, you'll find the one that best suits your needs, and with our professional assistance, you'll be able to refine any aspects of your wedding structure that need covering.
Protocol should not be perceived as a burden but as a valuable ally that will turn your wedding into a dream come true. At Nym the Wedding, we understand your ideas, and together we will adapt the protocol to reflect your unique love and personality. So let's embrace the magic of protocol together and make your wedding a harmonious dance that will leave an indelible mark on the hearts of all present. Your love story deserves to be celebrated uniquely and specially, and we are here to make it happen!
Trust Nym the Wedding, your wedding planner in Murcia, and let us guide you on this journey full of love and beauty.